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Author road · 12 Stations · 12 days · Mind & Psychology › Psychology

Think with Daniel Goleman's tools

12 Stations through Goleman's two books, from the emotional hijack and the skills that tame it to the three kinds of focus a leader needs, ending in a daily and weekly practice of your own for training attention.

We do not re-summarise Emotional Intelligence; it has its own road. We connect two books: Emotional Intelligence's abilities, from naming a feeling to the artful critique, then Focus's account of attention as a trainable muscle and its three directions: inward, toward others and outward. The order is a teaching order designed by BookYol, not the author's own.

Catching an emotional hijack earlyNaming and regulating feelingsReading and setting the tone of a roomTraining attention like a muscleBalancing inner, other and outer focus
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The road, station by station

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  1. 01The hijack in slow motion

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    from Emotional Intelligence

    Today’s Station — start →

  2. 02Name what you feel

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    from Emotional Intelligence

  3. 03Cool the anger cascade before it builds

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    from Emotional Intelligence

  4. 04Wait for the second marshmallow

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    from Emotional Intelligence

  5. 05Read the Unspoken, Then Say It Back

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    from Emotional Intelligence

  6. 06Catch the contagion: notice what you absorb, choose what you send

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    from Emotional Intelligence

  7. Milestone

    Emotions caught earlier

    An overreaction is replayed frame by frame, feelings are named precisely, one anger chain is cut early, one impulse is delayed ten minutes, one unspoken feeling is read back as a question and one tone is chosen before a meeting.

  8. 07The Artful Critique: Feedback People Can Actually Use

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    from Emotional Intelligence

  9. 08What grabs attention, and what steers it

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    from Focus

  10. 09Inner focus: the signals beneath a decision

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    from Focus

  11. 10Other focus: three kinds of empathy

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    from Focus

  12. 11Outer focus: see the system around the task

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    from Focus

  13. 12A triple-focus practice for your week

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    from Focus

  14. Milestone

    Destination: a triple-focus practice

    A daily attention rep is in the calendar, and a written weekly review asks the inner, other and outer questions, with the strand you usually skip named and one decision already changed because of it.

The BookYol LetterTwo letters a week

For the road

The road is daily. The letter is weekly.

While you walk Think with Daniel Goleman's tools, two letters a week widen the view: a big idea on Tuesday and a small experiment on Friday, drawn from the same shelf of books.

Tuesday

The Big Idea

One idea that challenges an assumption, explained properly, with its source.

Friday

The Small Experiment

One small thing to try before Monday, so the idea becomes something you do.

Inside every letter

  1. 01The idea
  2. 02Why it works
  3. 03Where it comes from
  4. 04One thing to try

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