Author road · 12 Stations · 12 days · Mind & Psychology › Psychology
Think with Daniel Goleman's tools
12 Stations through Goleman's two books, from the emotional hijack and the skills that tame it to the three kinds of focus a leader needs, ending in a daily and weekly practice of your own for training attention.
We do not re-summarise Emotional Intelligence; it has its own road. We connect two books: Emotional Intelligence's abilities, from naming a feeling to the artful critique, then Focus's account of attention as a trainable muscle and its three directions: inward, toward others and outward. The order is a teaching order designed by BookYol, not the author's own.
The road, station by station
01The hijack in slow motion
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02Name what you feel
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03Cool the anger cascade before it builds
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04Wait for the second marshmallow
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05Read the Unspoken, Then Say It Back
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06Catch the contagion: notice what you absorb, choose what you send
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Milestone
Emotions caught earlier
An overreaction is replayed frame by frame, feelings are named precisely, one anger chain is cut early, one impulse is delayed ten minutes, one unspoken feeling is read back as a question and one tone is chosen before a meeting.
07The Artful Critique: Feedback People Can Actually Use
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08What grabs attention, and what steers it
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09Inner focus: the signals beneath a decision
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10Other focus: three kinds of empathy
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11Outer focus: see the system around the task
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12A triple-focus practice for your week
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Milestone
Destination: a triple-focus practice
A daily attention rep is in the calendar, and a written weekly review asks the inner, other and outer questions, with the strand you usually skip named and one decision already changed because of it.
